first things first, am sure some of you have read MY POST ABOUT HELPING THAT POOR FAMILY. am touched that you gals feel sympathy and wanna help. am even more touched that some of you want LKHJ to lead the donation drive. guess you really do trust us, ya?
but i wanna say that i’ve since spoken with some people and i’ve also given it abit of thought, and decided that LKHJ won’t be organizing a donation drive. you see, the local papers have highlighted the family’s plight, and with jocelyn’s FB shoutout, i understand that quite a number of people have hurried with the donation already. for now, the family should be alright.
in fact, some of us are worried about the possibly sudden (and possibly huge) influx of funds for the family. we’re in fact wondering if it would be a repeat of the ‘MRT case’ where something like half a million (singapore) dollars was raised for the family left behind by the deceased. if that’s the case, i hope the mother knows to pace the spending and maybe even set aside a trust fund of some sort for the youngest boy.
anyway, my family will probably be making our own small contribution to the family anyway. and if you too wish to do the same, please check out jocelyn’s FB and follow the donation instructions.
otherwise, if you have your usual way/s of giving back to the society or reaching out to help the less privileged, i think it’s alright if you wanna ‘sit out’ this one. they should be OK, or at least financially for now. the pain from the loss of a loved one is something else, and i hope the mother will be strong enough for the four kids.
still on the topic of giving, i wanna say i’ve always felt quite lucky when it comes to all this fandom business.
nay, i ain’t talking about luck in meeting my yong joon or wuri hyun joong. am talking about whilst there are unpleasant fan experiences (yes, there ARE…!), i’ve been fortunate that there are some mighty sharing and generous ones that come into my life.
i don’t know why and i don’t know exactly what i’ve done to deserve this; actually most of the time i’m half-afraid to be on the receiving end of pressies from fellow fans. coz even with my bae-fans, many of them would thank me as they give me pressies. (but but but… thank me for what…? what have i done to deserve their gratitude?)
but yea, over the years, whenever i travel to other countries and if i make the effort to meet with fellow fans, i always always always come back with practically overflowing gifts. really…!
there’re so many pressies from my tokyo trip last october my BFF had to watch me pull my hair out when i was trying to pack everything in. i was near tears as i sat on the floor in the hotel room, with all the stuff scattered all around me as i made my Nth effort to try repacking. in the end, i gave up. i just brought back the stuff in carriers^o^
such is the generosity and love of the fans. and i know some of these things ain’t exactly cheap stuff, and they really really really don’t have to. i ain’t looking for pressies when i go meet them; i just want their company and perhaps to have a meal together or something. i ain’t even looking for a treat, let alone pressies. it’s actually embarrassing when they come showering me with such pressies, whilst no matter how hard i’ve tried to prepare beforehand, i still come up short for their pressies.
(then again, for them, it’s buying for just me and for me, if i meet a dozen, it’s buying pressies for a dozen… errr, i can’t be buying expensive stuff for so many people, keke!)
anyway, i’m actually quite surprised that this ‘practice’ is also evident amongst the STARLINGs. amongst ‘our usual group’, i know of a few who are very nice to me. they would think of me when they see certain things, like skully tee, shoeholic tee, starry stuff… and we’ve even received a moet & chandon champagne in pink(!) from these lovely ladies!
and even from overseas fans… like when lavender saw the skullcandy earphones in pink and thought of me. and yea, she actually bought them for me! i’d posted about it HERE.

and then, very recently, i’ve even gotten a pack of nice-nice frothy instant cappuccino from chrislyn!
goodness, i don’t even remember blogging about how i adore good instant cappuccino that ain’t too sweet! for quite a few years now, the only instant coffee i drink at home is the instant cappuccino from a very ‘biang’ brand, aik cheong!
did i ever blog about that? i seriously cannot remember, but i don’t think i did. so how then did chrislyn learn of my secret obsession with instant cappuccino…?!

yea, there’s something else in the pic… i know, i know… that’s a ‘new acquisition’, keke!
STARLING christine was in hokkaido on a tour recently and while there, she remembered the princesses and how we love chocolates! and goodness, she didn’t just buy a box of those oh-so-famous choco-cookies for us, she’d bought three, one for each of the princesses!
i know those ain’t cheap, and serious, she really shouldn’t have, and needn’t have! and yea, i told her so. but she’s already bought them, and it’s only gracious to thank her nicely and accept the gifts. (and yea, they’re yummylicious! and yea, they’re ALL gone! at least mine are all gone, not sure about the other two, keke!)
so thank you, chrislyn and thank you, christine!
and moving on… do you remember OUR SPREE ON LEADER’s QUILTED BAG? most of you have gotten your bags by now, and i believe quite a few of you have even used yours.
keke, i know i have. i’ve used it twice already. once for an overnight trip to KL and another time for LKHJ‘s first official gathering the weekend before last. me love it! in fact when i was using it in KL, i had people asking me about the bag, and they weren’t even fans!
and oh, one STARLING bought it and ‘paraded’ it on her FB account. hee, her friends are asking about her about it! she’d texted me today to ask if LKHJ‘s gonna be doing another round of spree for this. actually i’m thinking about it, and may just organize one more round next month. so if you’re interested to buy, just watch this space closely, k?
during the last round, a STARLING from hong kong ordered hers from me too. and very recently, i got someone to help me deliver the bag to hong kong since her colleague was travelling there. so yea, that overseas STARLING got her bag already^^
but but but… haiyo, she too was ‘naughty’!! she had passed a bag to my friend’s colleague for me. i had just gotten it tonight. here, have a look!

yea… she’s got pressies for me…!
i feel so bad…!! pruepieces…!!did you feel obliged to get me something coz you’d ordered stuff from me? please don’t, k?
like i said earlier, we’re doing what we’re doing coz we want to, and if we’re giving our time voluntarily, we really ain’t looking for any rewards, compensation or whatsoever.
while i can’t speak for the other two princesses, i know it gives me pleasure to be able to provide a space for fellow fans to have abit of fun in. while it can be incredibly time-consuming and energy-consuming to maintain the forum and the blog and there’re times when i feel i must be crazy to think that i can manage so much… but most of the time, i feel quite happy that you gals seem happy with what we’re doing.
again, i wanna stress this, no need to buy us expensive stuff, k? but for those who had already done so, please don’t think i’m not grateful for the gifts. i do love being remembered and being thought of, but i really feel abit bad and even guilty accepting them when i feel i haven’t done much anyway (^.^;)
and the strangest of strange thing…?
just like the cappuccino, i can’t remember if i’ve mentioned liking agnes B. and if i did, it was years ago and it was on my other blog HERE. so how did pruepieces know? or was it just a lucky guess…?
it’s so strange that she’d bought something from agnes B, and that it’s in silver with some black, and it’s got a STAR in it too! and keke, there’s even a letter B on the star! with this B on the star, and the other B-charm on the bracelet, it makes BB! i guess you could even say it’s got my name written on it, keke!
so thank you very much, pruepieces!

but what truly truly touched me was the thought behind it all. i shan’t divulge the contents of what she’s written coz it’s personal and i’m not sure if she wants me to share… but oh my, handwritten letters are the best, i tell you! and i love it even more when it’s looooooooong! hey, you did well even though you said you haven’t written a letter by hand in something like a decade!
and… you’d even gone through the trouble of finding a pink minnie mouse letter pad!!
i feel sooooo… touched! and was suddenly reminded of PROJECT NEW BEGINNINGS. yea, i guess it was really a good thing i decided to handwrite all those messages. the feeling of receiving something handwritten is really really really different from receiving something that’s typed and printed out. i guess wuri hyun joong must feel quite special to receive all those handwritten messages.
really. i’d experienced it firsthand^^
and i also remember KADD’s HANDMADE CARD for my birthday this year. and i also remember the postcards that my dear fan-friends satovic and camille had sent me from whereaway places where they’re holidaying at! me loves receiving postcards! (hey, maybe we should do a postcard activity for wuri hyun joong one day!)
yea, there’s just something special about handmade stuff. something that an expensive luxury or branded gift cannot give. or maybe it’s just me, the conservative and very old-school me. but somehow, i’ve a very strong feeling my yong joon and wuri hyun joong are both old-school too.
now i’ve posted about it coz i’m truly grateful for the gifts. but i also wish to tell all STARLINGs you really don’t have to buy us anything. i’m not sure why you feel ‘compelled’ to buy us stuff, or to thank us… we’re doing whatever we’re doing coz we want to. it makes us happy enough that you enjoy your time on the forum and on the blog enough to want to stay on, to want to come back.
want to make us happier? just post more and even better, help to repost more, ya? don’t have to buy us anything, k?
and if you truly want to make us happier, there’re other ways. i’ll be telling you more about this in a separate blog post. it’s related to THAT MYSTERY THREAD ON THE FORUM.
yea, with wuri hyun joong’s new drama coming up, it’s time we get busy^^
whoa, it’s a super looooooog and rambling post! and guess what?! i ain’t done yet! since it’s already so long, and all jumbled up, i wanna post a random pic, keke!
well, i caught up with two good pals from my ex company for dinner. it was lovely chatting and recollecting our travelling days together, including INDIA, JAPAN, ARGENTINA, MOSCOW, the many many trips to hong kong and SHENZHEN, etc…
they were such lovely peeps to work with, and good lord, the stuff that we’d gone through together! dinner was so-so, but the company was fab! so fab that we adjourned to the bar next to the restaurant for some dessert and drinks.
lovely monday night i had, hope yours was great too!

but but but… i know the day hasn’t been exactly happy for some people. am sure you gals know of liezle’s and OdeDS‘ blogs, ya? and of course, of late there’s 501WANGJA.
seems like they’d suffered a minor setback in the sense that the duo running the site woke up to find their videos and most of their photos all wiped out! the gals are still in action and still blogging and meanwhile, trying to sort out what’s happened. aigoo… that reminds me, better backup everything that’s precious.
and if you run a blog, a site or forum, do setup some routine backup, k?
other than 501wangja, i also read from SOOMPI that something’s happened to all fora hosted on Ipbfree. seems like they’d removed all the fora without prior warning!
here’s what fellow fan susamirain has shared on soompi,
Hello everyone!
If you have tried visiting KHJ International over the past few days you might be wondering where we went? Well, we did not delete our forum, it was wiped by the company Ipbfree.com for reasons that remain secret to all Ipbfree users. All Ipbfree communities were wiped including Ipbfree’s own support forum. This is all I will say about the wipe because it seems to be dangerous to say much else.
Hyunnies United: Kim Hyun Joong International Forum is still going strong but the wipe has left us having to rebuild from scratch. No backup data was kept from the old forum. We need all the help we can get in rebuilding our community.
Hyunnies United’s new location is at: http://kimhyunjoong…..org/portal.php
All registrations will have to be approved by the admin (SoraMio) that’s me silly! This is only temporary soon everyone will be able to register without my approval. I am just trying to regather the original staff first so we can get things set up nicely for everyone.
So please make note of our new location. This time around I plan on getting us a nice domain name and getting the forum hosted on a server. I think that will at least give us a chance to save our data if the company decides to wipe. But I doubt they’d wipe a paying community.
I welcome any help and support at this time. Hyun Joong has a new drama coming up “Playful Kiss” and this is definitely a time for big promotions. He also still has activities with SS501 which still need big promoting too. Hyunnies United loves all of SS501, Hyun Joong is just our favorite, but he is a “Group Artist” not a solo artist.
now i’ve gotta confess i ain’t familiar with KHJ International (Hyunnies United). of course i’ve heard of it and have registered an account on it. but somehow the site never ‘spoke’ to me, if you know what i mean. then again, i ain’t the sort to go everywhere to post and reply anyway…
but that said, i also ain’t the sort to view fellow fansites as competition, so whilst some of you may question the wisdom of me telling STARLINGs about the existence of other KHJ sites, i think nothing of it. i mean, you could easily find a dozen more by googling, haha!
anyway, if you’re looking for KHJ International, but find it gone, try THIS NEW LINK. understand that the admin team is trying to create and build another site. the saddest thing is there’s no backup and quite literally, everything’s gone. my heart feels for them. that site’s been around even longer that LKHJ, so i can only imagine the amount of data lost.
they said they’re looking at using their own domain name and hosting solution. yea, that should be the way if you’re serious about keeping the site, i think. personally, i’ve always hated those free forum hosting that has lots of blinky ads here, there, everywhere. me likes my things simple and uncomplicated, and blinky-bling only when i want them to.
and just before i go…
know what? the TONY MOLY SINGAPORE team is really very much into the whole social media business! not only have they tried to get our interest through FB and twitter even before they open, they’ve also been interacting with us! and i’ve gotta say they’ve been mighty responsive to fans too!
i know they’ve also been reading the blog posts that mention tony moly singapore, and they’ve also replied some of these blog posts. yea, they replied to us HERE too!
oopsies! the pink princess had commented about their watermark and now they know… then again, i was just being my usual honest and forthright self. no offense intended, and i sure hope no offense taken^^
so far, my interaction with the people over at tony moly singapore has been fairly positive, and i hope they will remain communicative and receptive. working with fans is actually a fab way to get our ‘buy-in’.
shall leave you with two pics that they’ve just put up on THEIR FB PAGE.


okie, i’ve held you back long enough, shall stop here so that you can go do your stuff.
but hey, remember to check back here and also at the forum, as i’m gonna be discussing about the support activities for wuri hyun joong’s new drama soon, ya?
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